i'm fucking sick of this.
what might that be you ask? well my mother.
i'm sick of her trying to fucking guilt trip me into making me feel bad when i actually go out and do something with my friends. case in point. the last 2 days, friday night and saturday. earier in the week i had told her that i'm going out to dinner with my friend mel who i actually haven't hung out with in a very long time. a very nice change of pace then going out with my mother let me tell you... anyway i didn't know what time she was going to call me, but it was going to be after i got home for work, so to shorten this story, mother was like what she didn't call, after she went out (to do what ever the fuck that was) and saw me sitting at the kittchen table watching tv,i'm like no she called and she is going to call me back after she is getting ready. mother didn't seem to happy about that but she kept that to her self.. somewhat.. then as i'm leavnig to go out she's like where are you 2 going to eat, i said tea pot and responce was if your not doing anything afterwords bring me home something... now the translation for that is i'm not going to tell you what i want or ask you anything specific like that, i'm just going to nibble on some yogurt or something and sit my ass where i always do on the computer in the aol jewish singles/western mass chat rooms and wait to see if you bring me home anything.
so i brought her home 1/2 of this huge thing of food that i had got for my self. and she wasn't able to have it then cause it wasn't cooked enough for her.. so i put it in the frig and i'm assuming with the soy sauce on the kitchen table yesterday that she had it for dinner last night.
on to last night, i called her up like 2 hours before i was to leave work telling her that i'm going out after work with jen, and then she was like ok.. ending the conversation so i'm like ok. and hung up the phone. went out with jen to dinner then a walk around northampton, had a great time (thanks again) and then came home. mom was still up and sitting at her computer asked where i went n stuff, and a not so happy "thats nice" was her reply...my responce was nothing and walked away. so today i had a nice lil 7am shift on a sunday morning to do the floor set at work . mother and i had made no plans at to do something. i came home at 4:30, she asked me how was work, i said busy and i'm very sleepy, went into my room changed and was laying down on the bed with the fan on me cause it was very warm today and i was beat. she knocks on my door, opens it asked what i have planed, said i dont know i wanna get some rest, and she gets all pissed off about not going out to eat and stuff.
so in short, excuse me for going out with friends and having a live, and not being some loser who hangs out with his mom all the time and constantly goes out to dinner with her, cause apparently with have nothing to cook with, even if the kitchen is filled with cooking things...
there i'm done venting
what might that be you ask? well my mother.
i'm sick of her trying to fucking guilt trip me into making me feel bad when i actually go out and do something with my friends. case in point. the last 2 days, friday night and saturday. earier in the week i had told her that i'm going out to dinner with my friend mel who i actually haven't hung out with in a very long time. a very nice change of pace then going out with my mother let me tell you... anyway i didn't know what time she was going to call me, but it was going to be after i got home for work, so to shorten this story, mother was like what she didn't call, after she went out (to do what ever the fuck that was) and saw me sitting at the kittchen table watching tv,i'm like no she called and she is going to call me back after she is getting ready. mother didn't seem to happy about that but she kept that to her self.. somewhat.. then as i'm leavnig to go out she's like where are you 2 going to eat, i said tea pot and responce was if your not doing anything afterwords bring me home something... now the translation for that is i'm not going to tell you what i want or ask you anything specific like that, i'm just going to nibble on some yogurt or something and sit my ass where i always do on the computer in the aol jewish singles/western mass chat rooms and wait to see if you bring me home anything.
so i brought her home 1/2 of this huge thing of food that i had got for my self. and she wasn't able to have it then cause it wasn't cooked enough for her.. so i put it in the frig and i'm assuming with the soy sauce on the kitchen table yesterday that she had it for dinner last night.
on to last night, i called her up like 2 hours before i was to leave work telling her that i'm going out after work with jen, and then she was like ok.. ending the conversation so i'm like ok. and hung up the phone. went out with jen to dinner then a walk around northampton, had a great time (thanks again) and then came home. mom was still up and sitting at her computer asked where i went n stuff, and a not so happy "thats nice" was her reply...my responce was nothing and walked away. so today i had a nice lil 7am shift on a sunday morning to do the floor set at work . mother and i had made no plans at to do something. i came home at 4:30, she asked me how was work, i said busy and i'm very sleepy, went into my room changed and was laying down on the bed with the fan on me cause it was very warm today and i was beat. she knocks on my door, opens it asked what i have planed, said i dont know i wanna get some rest, and she gets all pissed off about not going out to eat and stuff.
so in short, excuse me for going out with friends and having a live, and not being some loser who hangs out with his mom all the time and constantly goes out to dinner with her, cause apparently with have nothing to cook with, even if the kitchen is filled with cooking things...
there i'm done venting